We have all been given different cards in life. We enjoy what we call the “good” cards because they produce good emotions in us: joy, encouragement, satisfaction, sense of worth, validation, accomplishment. But we shy away from the so-called “bad” cards because they often are tied to pain, emotional hurt, disappointment, and disillusionment. But while the good cards cause emotional high, the bad ones cause personal growth, if we allow the trials in our lives to finish their work.